Catholics have been meeting to celebrate Mass at Holy Family parish for over forty years. However, our parish family has been together for over sixty years.

The original church, St. Barbara's, was established in Lawton in June 1959. Bishop Victor J. Reed, Bishop of the Diocese of Oklahoma, appointed Fr. Paul Mollan as the first pastor. For the next eighteen months Fr. Mollan held Sunday services at the small Vaska Theater. Meanwhile, construction on a church and school plant began on a 6.8 acre tract of land donated by Blessed Sacrament Parish.

The first services in the new church were held on Sunday, November 13, 1960. On December 4, the feast day of St. Barbara, patroness of artillerymen, the new church and school were dedicated. Staffed by members of the Grail International Movement, the school opened that fall with an enrollment of 312 students in kindergarten through eighth grade. Unfortunately, due to financial difficulties, the school closed in May 1967.

Fr. James H. Ross succeeded Fr. Paul Mollan in June 1967. In June 1975, with the transfer of Fr. Ross, Father James Stafford was appointed pastor. He served as pastor until June 1987. Then Fr. Gerard MacAulay took over and was assisted by Deacons Herman Lawrence and James Doherty. Later, Fr. Larry Kolwalski was named pastor and was assisted by Deacons Charlie Wade, Herman Lawrence, and Norman Christophe. In 1994, Fr. Leven served as pastor until his retirement in June 1998. At that time, Fr. Robert T. Wood was appointed pastor. Deacons Herman Lawrence, Leo Martinez, and Pete Dulcamara assisted him. Fr. Philip Seeton succeeded Fr. Wood in June 2000.

By 1978, it was clear that the parish had outgrown its present location and plans to move began. The Lawton Public School system purchased St. Barbara's Church and school plant with the stipulation that the parish could use the church for a period of two years.

New land was purchased at 82nd Street and Cache Road. Groundbreaking ceremonies were held on Sunday, June 17, 1979 for a new church, rectory, and religious education classrooms. Names for the new parish were submitted to the Archbishop for consideration. On November 1, 1979, the name "Holy Family" was selected by the Archbishop. So on October 30, 1980, Holy Family Church was officially dedicated with the Oklahoma City Archbishop, Charles Salatka, celebrating the dedication mass.

By 1993, the parish numbered more than one-thousand families. Their vision continued to unfold. This new challenge revealed that more space was a step to the future. The construction of the "Family Life Center" has us poised to do greater things in this part of God's kingdom, Lawton's Holy Family Parish. It is a nineteen-thousand square foot multi-purpose building to help the next generation to work on preparing their vision...young people attracted to, involved in, and dedicated to the spiritual and social excellence in their Christian walk with Jesus. In Him we have not labored in vain!

On Saturday, October 4, 2008, the parish had a picnic in the area on the back of the parish property. An outdoor Mass was conducted by Father Larkin under a large tent, followed by dinner and fun. The parish provided the meat (roasted pig and grilled hamburgers and hot dogs) and everyone brought a side dish and a desert. Although bingo and cards were available under the tent, as well as volleyball, horseshoes and other games for the kids, the highlight of the picnic was the burning of the note to the Family Life Center. Nearly 500 people watched as Father Larkin touched flame to mortgage to a hearty round of applause and cheers. A job well done by all!

In 2010, Fr. Phil Seeton returned and became our pastor.  In 2017, we began the process of building a narthex  or gathering space so that parishioners could visit after Mass.  A new extended parking lot was also part of the narthex project. There is a time capsule that is part of the narthex which contains bulletins, memorabilia and a letter from our pastor.  The narthex is a sign of parish growth and hope for the future.

Our Clergy Through the Years